Balancing "Being Self Aware" vs "What you think about yourself"

2021.11.27 17:01 ipod7 Balancing "Being Self Aware" vs "What you think about yourself"

Mainly I want to talk about being told that I am passive-aggressive.
First of all, as full disclosure, I am currently in therapy, just started a few weeks ago and but this topic hasn't come up yet. Also, at one point I probably was passive-aggressive, in that I would stop talking to people when I was mad at them. But at some point after doing yoga for about 2-3 years I became self-aware of how angry of a person I was and I think it helped me a lot. I'm a lot better at not getting angry about stuff and staying level-headed.
A lot of times I feel like I'm dammed if I do and dammed I don't. I can't talk about how I'm feeling because other people don't like to talk about those feelings and get annoyed at the thought of it. I have asked for clarification from people who have said I am passive-aggressive on how I'm passive-aggressive and the answers I have gotten are "I think it's just because you're so thorough" and "Honestly, I don't know" (guessing he didn't know how to put it into words).
These people have also gotten mad at me and ignored me, so then I don't understand how it's different when they do it compared to when I do it.
I don't view myself as passive-aggressive. I feel like I am pretty honest. Do I just operate through life, with my own beliefs about myself? How do I incorporate other people's criticism even if I feel like it's not true or don't see it?
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2021.11.27 17:01 JW_Tomekin Instead of calling it 20 win challenge. Call it what it is ….

Pekka & golden knight challenge. It’s all I see. What happened to the creativity in this game? Nobody even tries tone balance in their armies now. This game used to be moving chess now it’s Rock Paper Scissors. Why is it so lame now. Because supercell doesn’t listen. You can’t send them feedback directly. This forum has too many strict moderators removing valid criticism like this. You want the game to flourish again. Listen to the community. Stop money grabbing for short term gains. Stop catering to offensive cards and gimmick defense.
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2021.11.27 17:01 svanapps This Week in Apps: Twitter launches livestream shopping, Netflix snags new games, Tile gets acquired

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2021.11.27 17:01 ifalatefa Does a master's always have to be about career advancement?

I'm 29F in Dublin, Ireland. I've been an ESL teacher for adults for over 6 years. I am on the top salary available for my job (yes, there are no other companies offering higher salaries as my school pays the most in Ireland). I have been told by my boss I should do a DELTA to advance my career, which would be for management. The issue is: I don't have any desire to be a manager! I love teaching and hate paperwork/micromanaging people. I hate office work.
However, in the last few years I've become very interested in psychology and I've been getting a lot of positive responses for my creative writing. I would love to do a master's in psychology or creative writing, but don't see how it would help my career. It feels silly to spend 10k on a master's that won't get me any more money or help my career.
Is it silly to do these courses? Or is there value in doing something you're passionate about?
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2021.11.27 17:01 jollyvarez 2022/2023 3rd and 4th Round Draft Picks

Obviously, the further down the draft, the fewer expectations you have for a player becoming an integral part of your team long-term. With that in mind, are there any current players that you would trade your 3rd or 4th round pick in 2022 or 2023 that you believe would help your team more than a player you could potentially draft at that position? Mainly asking for 1QB, but you can discuss SF as well.
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2021.11.27 17:01 sour_lemonade73 Looking for some new friends to play with!

Hi! I’m a 20 y/o enby (they/she) looking for some new ACNH friends! I recently restarted my island, so it’s a work in progress, but would love new people to share inspiration and play with! Hoping to make some long-term, acnh-loving friends!
Prefer 20-25 y/o
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2021.11.27 17:01 sharptile 3D Newton's Fractal

I saw this video recently and was wondering if someone could make a 3D version of this for Unity
since my C# knowledge is not good enough for me to attempt this myself im asking here to see if anyone is willing to try it out and show it off maybe possibly also send me the code for it
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2021.11.27 17:01 0321Frog show your faces cowards

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2021.11.27 17:01 amy__lou Does anyone know if/when villagers will start using the things we’ve built?

I love this game and all the places we create but it would be nice to see the villagers doing stuff other than walking from one shop to another and driving the same routes. We’ve spent so long developing things like the market, the mall, and the park but never see villagers using these places. It would just be a nice thing to see I suppose. Unless this happens later on and I haven’t reached that level yet?! I’m on level 36 :)
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2021.11.27 17:01 Starmie77 Watch me play Burger and Frights, an atmospheric scary game!

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2021.11.27 17:01 Arvidex Anime where MC experiences heart break and preferably gets over it

Is there an anime where the MC is in love with another character bet they don’t feel the same and the MC is kinda bummed about it but works through it on their own without getting someone else or a bug revenge plot or something?
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2021.11.27 17:01 DreamtailFoxy my phone decided to do this.

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2021.11.27 17:01 armhad We all deserve friends like this :)

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2021.11.27 17:01 arsehole2mods 55g gourami/angelfish and friends.

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2021.11.27 17:01 Technical-Carrot- I have to say, we are very happy with this!

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2021.11.27 17:01 teenstarlets_info 82 Dawn Harper Moments From Every Episode of Nicky, Ricky, Dicky, and Dawn! | Nickelodeon

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2021.11.27 17:01 Winter-Manager4775 ‘A core threat to our democracy’: threat of political violence growing across US

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2021.11.27 17:01 Sunglassesandwatches Need advice about relationship with supervisor

I would like to start by giving a bit of context.
I have been working with them for almost 5 years, in May 2022 the sixth year will start. I am a PhD candidate in his last year. In June 2020, I passed my thesis proposal and by the end of the summer I had already published 3 papers with them as the co-author. I have been working on the 4th one for almost two years and this paper has been ready for them to read since the middle of summer. In September 2020, 3 colleagues, my supervisor, and I were invited to work in a project with an industrial partner. It was a 16-month project, which is supposed to end this December (2021). During this project, I have been paid to work on this and the project has been my main focus during the last 15 months.Because of this project, our "relationship" grew and we were close to the point that we would talk everyday, at late hours, and during a hard period of my life, due to high stress related to the project, I opened myself to them.During my time working on this project my performance was outstanding and a great part of the development was on my hands.
By the end of the summer (2021), I said to them that I wanted to submit my thesis before the end of the year, because I wanted to defend somewhere between January - May of 2022. Another colleague from the project that I described above also requested the same, as they had obtained a postdoc position elsewhere. My supervisor said they thought it was a feasable plan for me and agreed. They never said "no, you can't", "you are not ready" or showed any opposition to this idea. I finished writing my thesis by the end of October and I told him that it was ready for feedback. At this point, my thesis in full and the 4th paper were on their "desk" waiting for feedback.As the time passed, they didn't read my thesis, but my colleagues thesis was read in full and reviewed.My colleague is defending before the Christmas break.They will be joining their pos-doc position in January.
As all this happened, the project with the industrial partner slowed down due to problems on the partner's side. Unfortunately, the project won't be completed before the end of December, and it will mostly likely be finished somewhere between January and May 2022. As of today, my supervisor and the industrial partner have not given an official statement or said anything about the future of the project. During the bi-weekly meetings people only say "this will be completed in somewhere in January", "this thing will be tested in February". But nothing official has been said.Of course, my colleague won't be participating as they will be joining other lab, and the work with the industrial partner is secret.
At the beginning of November, I spoke with them and told them that I was in conversations to accept a full time job in January, but I wanted their blessing. Once again, I told my supervisor that I wanted to submit my thesis before the end of December, and they said that they didn't foresee any major issue to submit my thesis before the Christmas break. During this conversation, I told them that I would even TA for them during the Winter term (January to May 2022) as I know how important for them is to teach and to have a TA on which they can rely. This is, of course, more work for me, but I want to them to be happy so they read my thesis.They seemed glad with my offer. For me, this was their blessing. I accepted the job offer this week.
Now, this is where it gets tricky, my supervisor has not read my thesis as of today. They don't seem to be interested in doing so. The lab where I work has weekly meetings and I planning to tell him that I won't be joining them once the job starts in January. I am not doing any experiments, my thesis is already written, and the project with the industrial partner is officially done in December. The payments will also officially stop in December 31. I don't know what the industrial partner plans to do once 2022 starts, but I won't be joining any meetings with them as well.
My questions are : is there a way I could push them to read my thesis? Is it okay for me to say "I won't be joining the lab meetings in January"? Have I acted wrongly at some point?
My supervisor gave me the opportunity to do my PhD, I am very thankful and I don't want to screw my relationship with them, but at the same time I have given all of me to this endeavour and I want to move on in my life.
Any thoughts and advice are well appreciated.
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2021.11.27 17:01 bookwormSophie Looking for recommendations with good female MCs

I'm looking for more progression fantasy stories with female protagonists that are actually well written and not just a woman for fan service reasons.
If the story also has good worldbuilding or a focus on the mental stuff that would be appreciated. I also don't particularly enjoy romance or comedy as the main subject, though I don't mind it as a side subject. Xanxia/wuxia also usually isn't my thing, but if it's more unique than the standard stuff I'd be willing to give it a shot.
Thanks in advance!
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2021.11.27 17:01 onemajic1 Small Brewery Sunday 2021: Where To Grab A Pint In Tucson

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2021.11.27 17:01 spoofdoose12 Kitty mew mew

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2021.11.27 17:01 johnrock001 D.Gray-Man Filler - All Filler Episodes Lists D.Gray-Man

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2021.11.27 17:01 MugShots DPS Alert

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2021.11.27 17:01 Vinny_The_Blind Looking for recommendations for a very specific kind of remote desk setup

For context I have a vision disability which requires me to sit within about 4-6 of my 22inch desktop monitor (along with heavy use of windows magnifier). Thus at my home setup I have a sturdy amazon basics monitor arm to make it easily adjustable to not have to strain my back/neck to sit close enough.
So what I'm really in need of is a way to achieve this monitor position flexibility with a portable setup. Especially so since I can't guarantee the height of my chaidesk if I'm on the go. I haven't been able to find any monitor arms that seem reasonably portable, and I've been thinking about some sort of tripod that could be adjusted but my main issue there is it often would get in the way of my keyboard if the legs are too large, but I'm still planning on ordering one to try it out in practice.
Hopefully this is the right sub to ask, I'd appreciate any recommendations, thanks.
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2021.11.27 17:01 H25azbxwyz Week 13: Rivalries, championship hopes, CFP implications

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No rivalry has produced more big games than Michigan-Ohio State.
That’s seven more than the next closest rivalries. Among the rivalry games in the spotlight over Thanksgiving weekend, Alabama-Auburn has had eight top-10 matchups in its history and Oklahoma-Oklahoma State has just two. The 10th-ranked Sooners and number 7 Cowboys will make it three Saturday in Stillwater.
Of the all the rivalry games being played this weekend, the one with the second-most top-10 matchups is Florida-Florida State with 14. The Gators and Seminoles are decidedly unranked this season.
Still, it’s a rivalry so interest abounds, as it will across the country over three days when you can gorge on college football.
number 2 Ohio State at number 6 Michigan.
Bedlam makes a strong case, but Buckeyes-Wolverines gets the slight nod because of the greater likelihood of offensive fireworks.
Ohio State possesses the best offense in the country, fueled by a Heisman Trophy contender at quarterback.
C.J. Stroud has thrown 36 touchdown passes and completed 71.1% of his passes, guiding an offense that averages almost 8 yards per play.
The Wolverines have two of the nation’s best pass rushers in Aidan Hutchinson and David Ajabo, but the real counter for Michigan is its powerful running game.
Hassan Haskins and Blake Corum are the one-two punch.
The winner takes the Big Ten East, a spot in the conference title game and will be a step away from the College Football Playoff.
And then there is the already-baked-in intrigue of The Game: Ohio State has won eight straight, including all five since Jim Harbaugh has become Michigan coach.
Will Anderson Jr. OLB, Alabama
The Heisman race clarified last week with Stroud and number 3 Alabama’s Bryce Young taking the role of favorites, but Young’s teammate deserves attention.
Anderson has been the most consistently dominant player in the country this season, with 26.5 ta(...)
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